Monday, 20 March 2017

This lady claims to be a 'semi virgin' & wants to know whether she should give her man 'the rest'

An anonymous lady, who says she is 'half virgin, half open' sent in her question to Relationship consultant, Joro Olomofin. What advice do you have for her?

1 comment:

  1. Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thin membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker- put a breakable
    tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
    Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, ‘Whoever plunges in to this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward’. Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed. The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c) said it in clear terms in 1Cor.6:13: “Now, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he / she is working directly against God’s plan and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age!
    There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to
    the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it.
    As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an
    immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is
    highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness! The first time this happens
    just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to
    further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another
    “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her” (1 Cor.6:16). This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.
    If you have loosed it in one way or the other, that was when you were ignorant of the consequences, you can still turn to God for a second chance. He is abundantly able to deliver and save those who trust in Him. IT IS IMPORTANT. It's your Honor, Respect, PRIDE, everything. Confess everything to God. He is a God of second chance. God loves you! Try all your best to remain pure. You will surely have a great testimony. God will help you!([email protected])